How do you prepare the child to become "great"

Any question of how their parents cope with the birth of her first child a new family member. So, how the child will become "at large", regardless of age that is? Here are some tips to prepare a child we welcome brother / sister:

1. need to be told what is the process of birth - it appears the child in the womb (mother and father and together they make love child) and how they grow;
2. should be left to sweep the mother's stomach, belly baby talk to them;
3. to be told that your child will come when he will have to help their parents because the child will need help;
4. after birth must be small loads - to bring diapers, bring a towel, etc. to raise the little clothes., but, look! only task for his age, in any event not be given such responsibilities to keep him in arms and make him fall asleep or to wash it, etc. are not suitable for his age;
5. must tell him, before birth, that it was him, than in the womb and the small became great and now it's his turn to help the new-born to grow it big - many children become jealous brothers smaller because they imagine that excessive attention to her parents will always be so, as children grow and they will not, and they will be young again and that they be treated like this;
6. should be explained that the relationship between brother and sister is a special, they help each other, as they love to share everything, they are forever bound together - children do not realize, unless they are explained that they have a special relationship with the newcomer on the world - must be explained in this time;
7. should tell him and the birthing process - the fact that the mother will go to the hospital and doctors will help to remove the child from the belly, the child should really visit the hospital and see with your baby and father;
8. should be encouraged to play with him and talk to him when awake;
9. should not sleep in the same room with the small, as no parents should not sleep with the little bed, which would awaken a normal reaction to envy from the sea, not to mention that it is not recommended to sleep with parents prichindeii ;
10. must distinguish between a boy and a girl (through play and drawing), to know the details of physiological differentiation, including those related to sex (without using the term "folk" need to know the penis and vagina).